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the most significant and impact word that i've heard today
from 天外飛仙..
this is the 3rd time i'm watching this show,
but everytime i've got new learnings from it..
and put me into deeeeeeeeeeeeeep thoughts
indeed, we all have to learn not to be self-centered.
things can't go as u wish all the time
sometimes it's very important that one learn to
go along with other's decision,
compromise others
instead of thinking of one's self.
a very great 'jing jie' that everyone have to learn to reach
i'm still in the process of learning it,
although all along i've been practising it.
and i know, most of us have been practising it,
and have been undergoing it because
there's so many chances for us to encounter it.
But we have not really master it
because we still will complain and not forgiving enough
or not kuan rong enough as to love our enemy,
treat everyone as own.
ps: i'm not projecting anything or anyone, i must clarify this.
i am just sharing my thoughts on all the people in the world
oh ya, i can relate this to a group of people leh.
juz thought of it.. people that i met between Sep 07-Nov 07,
very obvious this period wad we're all doin le la
but i tell them oso no use,
they won't understand.
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1) 飛輪海 won 最受歡迎團體獎 yesterday on Hito 流行音樂頒獎典禮
this award has been belonging to S.H.E every year for past years, but this year 飛輪海 won.
They also sang 新窩 live with S.H.E, with ella n 尊 playin a little in e middle.
2) ha.. after reading yy's blog makes me remember something.. actually everyone has a inner side of yourself which has the desire to be shocking, to do something very shocking, 豁出去, do something w/o considering consequences, just because u want, and go and do it..
but 人往往沒有那個勇氣去做。
因爲社會逼人們成爲局限在乖乖實在的過生活的框框
大家只是在讀書，找一份作工，只要能過安分的過生活，什麽工作都無所謂，然後談戀愛，結婚，生子，下半輩子都只是在工作，過生活，完全為孩子打拼，好像只是一個formula that everyone follows.
大家就是每天去上班，拿薪水，花錢，存錢也是未來花錢，回家，睡覺，購物，就連看電視，玩遊戲等等等等，都是爲了什麽？都只是在過生活，這樣一直循環，在等生命結束的那天到來。真的覺得都是沒有意義的。爲什麽要過生活？有什麽意義？
我知道這是世上每個人得做的事情。無法改變。因爲這就是生活。真得很沒有意義。所以才期盼自己一眨眼就七老八十了。那樣formula-based的過生活就不用持續很久。
非常佩服既敬佩那些在這種formula-based的生活裏活出真正精彩的人，就是那些義工們吧，他們不完全屈服于做工賺錢買東西花錢結婚生子為自己利益生活，他們生命力就一直在幫助沒有能力的人。。
回到原點，幫助那些沒有能力的人，而那些人還不是一樣在過沒有意義的life cycle.
do u think i seriously need some counselling? lol
back to e point, coz yy mentioned abt tattoo.. i've oso got think b4 of tattoo-ing a small CHARMED's logo on my hand, the other side of palm.. but of coz i won't have the courage to 豁出去 and have it.. therefore i only want to make a pendant of the logo and wear it forever.. because i reali love CHARMED.
omg i say i will blog lesser coz i wan to maintenance my blog.. BUT.. OMG.. I KEEP BLOGGING NON-STOP..
TOO MANY THINGS TOO MANY THOUGHTS!!!
ADDICTED TO BLOGGING!!
怎麽辦。。
maybe it's time to reopen my wretch blog to avoid over flooding this blog liao.
